Wow, change is so very interesting. It asks if we're comfortable with ourselves and with those around us and just how adaptable we really are. I've found that I am indeed a caretaker and can adapt better than I thought. I have also learned the extent of my appreciation of quiet time. Add a busy 14 year old and a barn build to your household and you realize how precious quiet is. I thank Disney for G rated television and the television industry for an off button on the remote.
The kids have been a part of our household for two months now. I am amazed at the amount of energy they have and the willing help they have brought with them. Keeping up with them has proven impossible. I am looking forward to finishing the barn and having life settle into a routine. OK, as much of a routine as high school will allow.
The barn is coming along. The arena posts and roof are done and the posts for the shed side (stalls) go up tomorrow. We will be ready to start the outside walls soon and when that is complete we can begin the interior. It's been great fun to watch but I really want to get to the point where the contractor is gone and we can start putting our personal touches on the building.
We have been very fortunate to have been offered a rescue horse found by a family friend. He is a gorgeous animal and, with some additional training, will see the grand daughter through her high school equestrian team experience. Now, when she is out picking up chunks of wood and stray nails she is doing it for Tommy and his new home.
Would I recommend living with extended family for others? I would, with reservations. One loses privacy, quiet and order when they must share space with people who are used to their independence. It is not always easy to stop a cranky word from surfacing or to live with the results of a quick move. It is a challenge with limited space and time to find new homes for stuff. I find I am horrified by the amount of unnecessary stuff normal people collect. I am also horrified by the idea I bought a home with no attic. What was I thinking? If someone considering this move can, after thorough reflection, open themselves to the adventure and opportunity they will face then I say hooray, go for it. It is not always easy but for me is turning into a very good choice. I am reminded every evening when we gather at the dinner table that I am very lucky to have a fine family. Perfect? No, thank goodness, but truly fine.