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Dear Pattianne,
Your grief is so new and my heart goes out to you. I am very truly sorry! I'm also disabled and yes, it gives me too much time to think also. As far as anger goes, I think I hold the record and it took me a good long time to work through it. I still battle it but it's coming up on 4 yrs since I lost my son and it IS getting better. I'm now praying for the ones I once hated with all my heart and soul.
I was also EXTREMELY angry at God for allowing this tragedy to happen as I'd prayed so hard for my son.
My anger at God is completely gone and I'm now incredibly thankful that He loved me enough to send His son to voluntarily die for me. I'm certainly no one to get preachy....all I know is what happened to me.
I am so sorry for your loss!
Sincerely, Marcia
Joyce, I just ran up on this website and I really need it. I lost my dear Husband Feb.20,2008 and I can't seem to cope with it. I am disabled and can't work so I have to much time to think. Is it normal to feel anger after this ? I am so mixed up emotionally I don't know where to start. Patti