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Name: Edith aka Iron Rider
Gender: Female
Status: Single
Ethnicity: African American
Location:
Maryland
United States
School:
Risley High School
Southern University
Prince George's Community College
Copywriting Advance Program
Work:
First Career: Retired USDA Property Inspector
Second Career: Freelance Writer
Hometown(s):
Brunswick, GA
Washington, DC
New York, NY
Atlanta, GA
Laurel, MD
Landover, MD
Upper Marlboro, MD
Quote:
Life is short.....Live it well!

About Me

Hello Motorcycle Riders, Campers, Hikers, Dog Owners and long distance bicyclist: I ride a 1999 Suzuki Intruder 1400 motorcycle that I call my "Iron Horse" and proud of it. My future dream is to take a few long distance rode trips on my motorcycle. The problem is: My friends are still tied-down to jobs and don't have the flexibility that I have. As a freelance copy and technical writer, I can write from anywhere. So I guess I'll probably get tired of waiting for my friends to take this trip with me......and decide to do it alone! In the past, I was an active member of the Phenomenal Ladies Motorcycle Club of Maryland until my life became really busy. However, since I designed the website for the club I'm still the webmaster and hangout with them if time allows. I'll always support and be a part of this club

Interests:
My interests involve remaining healthy and active. So I workout in my local gym 3 to 4 times a week, pedal my bicycle whenever I can, walk and jog with the dog, ride motorcycle, and camp when I need to unhook from life and relax. Otherwise I've done some pretty interesting things such as bicycle for Norfolk, VA to Washington, DC in 4-days; did a long distance cyclist ride from Lake Tahoe, NV to CA with the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society; walked 65 miles in 3-days for Avon Breast Cancer on three different occasions; camp on a regular basis with my dog Cloud and walk local trails

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The below article was written by John Wood, AWAI Staff Writer. This article is one of my favorite motivators and one of the reasons I always have a smile on my face. I hope it helps you to find your smile too.

No matter what country you're from or what language you speak, everyone in the world understands what a smile means.

According to Dale Carnegie, famous self-improvement lecturer and author of the best-selling "How to Win Friends and Influence People…"
It costs nothing, but creates much. It enriches those who receive it, without impoverishing people who give it. It happens in a flash and the memory of it sometimes lasts forever.

English essayist and poet Joseph Addison (1672-1719) was also well aware of the power of smiling. He wrote…"What sunshine is to flowers, smiles are to humanity. These are bug trifles to be sure, but scattered along life's pathway the good they do is inconceivable."

Mr. Wood further states, "Here are eight reasons why you should make smiling part of your daily routine…"

1. You'll live longer and be in better health.

University of Michigan professor, Christopher Peterson, PhD, says, "Overall we found optimistic people are healthier. Their biological makeup is different. They have a more robust immune system."

Peterson adds that optimistic people generally take better care of themselves - they are more likely to eat sensibly, drink in moderation and exercise regularly.

According to a November 2004 study by the Archives of General Psychiatry among people 65 to 85 years of age, optimists were 71 percent less likely to die than pessimists.

When you smile it also boosts the levels of serotonin which plays a vital part in regulating moods, sleep, sexuality and appetite, and releases endorphins which are the body's natural pain killers.

2. it's easier to smile than frown. Someone once said that "It takes 17 muscles to smile and 43 to frown." I'm not sure if numbers are accurate, but you get the point - being miserable requires more work than being happy.

3. It makes you more attractive. There's a reason people insist you smile before they take your picture, everyone looks better with a smile on their face.

4. Smiling makes you look younger. Not only do you look better, you look younger. Forget the face lifts or Botox shots; just smile more often.

5. Smiling makes you seem more successful. People who smile are assumed to be more successful. If you're always frowning, people automatically assume things aren't going that great for you.

6. People treat you differently. If you're smiling, people are more likely to start a conversation with you. People want to be around people who smile.

7. You'll spend less time in jail. Studies have shown that judges give lighter sentences to people if they're smiling.

8. You'll have a more satisfying relationship.

A study by Dr. Dacher Keltner showed that women who showed an intense happiness in their smile were more likely to marry by the age of 27 and maintain a satisfying relationship.

In his classic book, "How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling," Frank Bettger told of how when he'd give talks across the country he'd challenge people to greet others with smiles for 30 days. He received thousands of letters talking about the impact this simple gesture had on their lives. He cites the following letter as typical of the letters he received:

"My wife and I had just about agreed to separate. Of course, I thought she was entirely at fault. Within a few days after I began to put this idea into action, happiness was restored in my home. I then came to realize that I had been losing out in business because of a sullen, losing attitude. At the end of the day, I would go home and take it out on my wife and children. It was all my fault, not my wife's at all. I am a totally different man from what I was a year ago. I'm happier because I've made others happy too. Now everybody greets me with a smile. In addition, my business has shown surprising improvement."

Here are four things you can start right now to put you on track to a happier life:

1. "Fake it till you make it." Dale Carnegie said it about enthusiasm, but it applies to smiling too. Put a smile on your face and even when things aren't going so good, you can't help but feel better.

2. Find the humor in situations. Who can forget the last scene of Monty Python's "Life of Brian" when Brian, sentenced to death by crucifixion for his part in a kidnapping plot, joins in with other 140 doomed men and sings "Always look on the Bright Side of Life?"

3. Smile at least five times a day for no good reason. Make smiling part of your daily schedule. Add it to your day timer so you don't forget. Make a point to smile at yourself first thing every morning when you look in the mirror.

4. Sing a song that makes you smile. There are certain songs that when you hear them, you can't help but smile. One of the more famous ones is "Put on a Happy Face" from the musical "Bye Bye Birdie." But in my opinion, the greatest song about smiling was written by the person many consider to be the greatest film comedian of all time. Everyone knows Charlie Chaplin was a great entertainer, but you may not know that he was also a prolific composer. Eighteen years after his most famous melody appeared on the sound track of his 1936 film "Modern Times," two Englishmen, John Turner and Geoffrey Parsons, wrote lyrics to it and titled it "Smile."

No matter where you are, if you're feeling less than stellar, you can't help but feel better about the state of your world if you sing these words to Chaplin's melody:

Smile tho' your heart is aching,
Smile, even though it's breaking,
When there are clouds in the sky - you'll get by,
If you smile through your fear and sorrow,
Smile and maybe tomorrow
You'll see the sun come shining through - for you.

Light up your face with gladness,
Hide ev'ry trace of sadness,
Altho' a tear may be ever so near,
That's the time you must keep on trying,
Smile - what's the use of crying,
You'll find that life is still worthwhile,
If you just smile.

This was an article worth sharing...I hope you enjoyed reading it. 

Added: October 1, 2008
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Cby says:

It's quiet today, the maniac cat is curled up and asleep, a western is droning on and on in the living room and rain is dripping from the roof. I love these kind of days. They become my resevoir of peace when life gets hectic again. Here's wishing you a wonderful New Year, just the way you like it!
Cby
Posted: January 1, 2009 1:52PM EST
EdithBrown says:

Happy New Year to you Cby.

Things are still pretty busy around my house. I took down holiday decorations on December 29th, and hauled everything back to the shed in the backyard. Now I am working on my income tax returns. My peace will start once I finish and electronically transmit my federal and state return
Posted: January 7, 2009 5:31PM EST
Cby says:

We took down the decorations and boxed everything up but they're still sitting in the living room waiting for our new shelf to be assembled. The dogs live in the garage so we need to wait for dry weather to let them out and us in!
I do my own taxes online too, but I'm still waiting for all the W-2's to come in before I can start. I'm anxious to see if I get anything back.
Posted: January 9, 2009 8:37PM EST
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