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Name: Dinty
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I have always wanted to be a writer, but for the first part of my life I assumed it simply would not be possible. Perhaps because of my working class background - Dad was a car mechanic and no one in my family had ever graduated college - the idea of writing serious books and essays seemed like an activity reserved for the sorts of folks who grew up on Cape Cod, went to Harvard, and could trace their ancestry back ten generations.

So I ended up in journalism - a form of writing that felt much more like a working-class job than it did an artistic pursuit. Yet it wasn't right for me, and by age twenty-two I had already quit two newspaper jobs and was trying just about everything else under the sun - making documentary films, mopping floors, writing corporate reports, waiting tables in Greenwich Village, even taking acting classes and working with an experimental dance troupe.

I didn't finally get serious about writing memoir and essay until my mid-thirties, and since then it has been a passion and (mostly) a joy. I've been lucky in my career, publishing books that suit my eclectic interests, and teaching the nonfiction craft to writers all across the United States.

To me, writing is a gift. Yes, it feels good to see my name on a book or to get a small royalty check now and again, but the true reward of all this scribbling and revising is a better understanding of where I've been, where I'm going, what I believe, and what makes sense to me. Writing is a form of discovery, a path to self-knowledge, and that knowledge can lead to richer, more rewarding days.



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We’ve been writing a lot about family lately, which is certainly a subject worthy of exploration, but lest we find ourselves stuck in a rut, I’m going to prompt you this month into a new direction.

 

I remember my first job.  While still in high school, I talked my way into a weekend slot at a car wash, back when minimum wage was close to one dollar.  This was one of those car washes where the driver exited the car before it was pulled through a tunnel by a chain, and then the driver, and whatever happy kids came along, could watch through a long glass window as the car travelled down the line.  The car was washed, wiped, buffed, sprayed, scrubbed, bristled, and blow-dried, mainly by machine, but a few rough-edged older men stayed inside the tunnel and did some of the more difficult hand-work themselves.

 

When the cars came out of the tunnel, two guys with cotton towels finished drying the chassis, while another fellow jumped inside and cleaned the dashboard and inside window.  Then this final fellow held open the door and said to the driver, “Thank you for coming to Jim Taylor’s Car Wash.  Have a great day.”

 

Probably because I was the only worker with a respectable haircut and clean trousers, the owner put me in charge of the final step.

 

Much to my surprise and delight, however, every third customer or so would thrust some money into my hand as he entered the car.  Usually it was a shiny quarter.  Sometimes two.  At the end of the shift, I may have made an extra eight to ten bucks, and that seemed grand.  I must really open a door well, I thought to myself, riding my Schwinn back home.

 

A few weeks went by until the other workers caught on.  These were tips, and in all fairness, I should have been sharing them with everyone, especially the rough guys who did the hard work in back.  The owner fired me on the spot, once the guys complained, which was probably the only reason I didn’t get the living daylights beaten out of me.

 

It all seems so stupid now, especially my never questioning why I was going home with my pockets sagging with quarters. Youth can be a powerful hallucinogen.

 

So, what was your very first job?

 

Here are a few prompts to get you started:

 

  • What was your very first job, outside of your own home?  What frightened you most about this new environment, or what amused you?

  • What was your earliest lesson about work and fairness?

  • Did you ever get fired?

Added: January 14, 2010
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Cindygrace says:

Don't have time now to write or read all the comments you recieved. I'd love to pursue the being fired part. It was a kick in the gut. I fought it. I'll never forget it.
Cindy Scales
Posted: January 30, 2010 2:50AM EST
snuzcook says:

Hi Dinty,
I have very much been enjoying posting and responding to posts on the Writing Memoire group.

But I have a question--

I am starting to feel a little bit as if I may have missed the point of this group. Is the group really intended only for writers who are seeking to publish memoires, to provide an audience and feedback group with that goal in mind?

I was attracted to it as a place to write and post a wide variety of autobiographical pieces, but not so much to prep for publication. It is for me just a forum for sharing stories and keeping my writing fresh and active. My "for publication" work is all elsewhere. Basically, this has been one of my play groups.

And I have just been kinda playing around here, reveling in writing and reading.
Is it possible I am not serious enough for this group, am I perhaps unwittingly creating a diversion dancing off to my own tune while everyone else is trying to be serious?

Just checking in, since I invited myself on the group and never really asked for guidelines.

Snuz
Posted: December 22, 2009 2:40PM EST
ibtal750 says:

I adore your photos.We are honored to have you as the new owner. I read some of your work. Love your sense of humor
Posted: October 6, 2009 7:47PM EDT
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