Hi all! I haven't been keeping up with all of you lateely. My 19 year old son and I just moved in to our apartment and we love it. STBXH still has the boyfriend so nothing has changed that way. We will see my attorney on November 13th and hopefully get this divorce moving. The whole thing is getting alittle old and I need to move on. Recap: married 37 years and hubby came out of the closed that he is gay. 3 adult children and 1 grandchild that don't want to have anything to do with him and for now he is content with that. What a mess! Hope to hear from some of you soon and I promise to be more in touch.