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AARP The Magazine Exclusive: Natalie Cole Speaks Out For The
First Time About Her Heart-Wrenching Story of The Tragic Loss of
Her Sister and the Unforgettable Gift of Life from Organ Donation
“I’ve lost some very special people, but Cookie
[her sister] is the toughest. There’s a part of me
that’s missing now. I don’t expect that I will ever
totally get over it.” – Natalie Cole exclusively to
AARP The Magazine
Only in the November/December Issue of AARP The Magazine
WASHINGTON (September 23, 2009)—Legendary songstress
Natalie Cole is back on the music scene after receiving
life-saving kidney transplant surgery in May 2009. In a highly
emotional and wide-ranging interview, she spoke exclusively to
AARP The Magazine about the night she left her dying
sister’s bedside to face her own health crisis in a dramatic
race against the clock for an organ transplant.
Gracing the cover of the November/December issue of AARP The
Magazine (available September 24th and online at
www.aarpmagazine.org), the 59 year-old Grammy Award-winning singer
and daughter of Nat King Cole, candidly opens up for the first
time about the grief she felt upon learning her sister Cookie had
passed away during her own life-saving surgery, the struggles of
dealing with her illness and dialysis treatments while performing
on the road, how faith has helped her heal, and finding new
purpose with a second chance at life.
ON THE NIGHT WHEN HER SISTER PASSED AWAY AND NATALIE’S
LIFE WAS SAVED:
“I was in dire straits. It was a real
bad situation, as far as I was concerned. Because everybody was so
in shock about Cookie, they didn’t have real good
sense.”
“It was like God’s hand was orchestrating the
whole thing.”
“I was getting good news and very bad news at the same
time. This was a very joyous moment where I’ve got new life.
It was also a very sorrowful moment, where my sister had gone on,
and the family that donated the kidney had lost their daughter as
well. My first reaction was that I wished I were back on dialysis
to have my sister. These two people had left this earth— and
I was here. Why? I feel like I don’t deserve it.”
“I’ve lost some very special people, but Cookie
is the toughest. There’s a part of me that’s missing
now. I don’t expect that I will ever totally get over
it.”
HOW FAITH HELPED NATALIE HEAL:
“Those angels on my
shoulder who’ve been there all along—now I know that
my sister Cookie is one of them.”
“When I look back, I can see the hand that has plucked
me out of or put me into special situations. I don’t totally
understand it. I know that God has had my back, even when I was
screwing up. And I now know he has a plan for me.”
“We are born with two kidneys and only need one to
survive. Maybe God gave us the other one so that we could give it
away.”
HOW SHE DEALT WITH A HEPATITIS C DIAGNOSIS AND MONTHS OF
ILLNESS:
“It just felt like I was dying.”
“As miserable as I was, once I started singing, I felt
better.”
“It was just extraordinary to me that this had been
dormant in my body for something like 25 years.”
“It was tough, but I felt if I didn’t push
myself, I would probably either die or just crumble.”
“They told me the average wait for a kidney was three
years. At first I thought, ‘There goes my
life.’”
“I’d sometimes fly for 14 hours, then go straight
to dialysis. I spent a little time being tired, but we managed.
I’m not a pity-party person.”
HOW ORGAN DONATION CHANGED HER LIFE:
“To have your
life saved by someone you don’t even know—oh, God. God
bless them.”
“I didn’t know that I could feel this good
again.”
“You get sick, and then you get well, and if you
don’t have more compassion for human beings after, then
something’s definitely wrong.”
Additional quotes from her son and close friends can be found
online at www.aarpmagazine.org/entertainment PLUS an exclusive
behind the scenes video of Natalie’s photo shoot for the
cover of AARP The Magazine.
An image of the November/December cover of AARP The Magazine
featuring Natalie Cole is available upon request.
About AARP The Magazine
With more than 35.5 million
readers nationwide, AARP The Magazine (www.aarpmagazine.org) is
the world's largest circulation magazine and the definitive
lifestyle publication for Americans 50+. Reaching over 24 million
households, AARP The Magazine delivers comprehensive content
through in-depth celebrity interviews, health and fitness
features, consumer interest information and tips, book and movie
reviews and financial guidance. Published bimonthly in print and
continually online, AARP The Magazine was founded in 1958 and is
the flagship title of AARP Publications.