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Name: Anita
Birthday: November 28
Gender: Female
Religion: Christian/Protestant
Location:
LEANDER, Texas
United States
School:
Lapeer HS Lapeer, Michigan
Work:
www.marykay.com/apickett2
Hometown(s):
Lapeer, Mi
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"Women helping women make a difference in their lives."

Being grandma or grammy (i prefer grammy)

I never thought I would be a grandmother before 55...but God had a different plan for me I guess.  Nobody wants their teenage children to become parents so young, but I have found all I can do is just be there for them when they need me and love my grandbabies to death.  They are such a joy.  Kids grow up so fast, too fast these days.  I try to tell my kids to enjoy this time because it will be gone before they know it.  Then responsibility comes and it can be hard.  I know it sounds like I am rambling but I need a release somewhere.

debb11 says:

Courage takes many forms and being a grandparent or parent in the face of adversity is one of them. If you believe in angels, I am sure the ones who watch over these little ones are smiling on you. I hope you will see a blessing each time you are able to know they are safe, fed, and loved
Posted: August 14, 2009 8:01PM EDT
devhaykaa says:

I for one want to say RIGHT ON. We live in NJ and I had and still am having trouble with the legal system. My son-in-law died 3 years ago and daughter last year. The courts have finally let me adopt the two kids (15 & 16) but till this day I am waiting for them to pay medical bills and set me up with a person to help me handle information which Hackensack DYSP said they would. It is not easy yet when I look in my grandchildren eyes and see the lose they feel and show all the bill and mental help they are gettin is worth all. Enjoy them all for GOD has given us a life to help even when times get rough. GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL
Posted: June 14, 2009 1:03PM EDT
dillieg says:

GO AHEAD AND RAMBLE..ITS GOOD FOR THE SOUL!! I AGREE WITH WHAT YOU SAID,KIDS REALLY ARE FORCED TO GROW UP FAST IN THIS SOCIETY.......REMEMBER WHEN THEY STARTED KINDERGATEN?/WELL,NOW THEY HAVE PRE-KINDERGARTEN,AND WORSE YET,PRE-SCHOOL FOR 3RD GRADERS..AND WE WONDER WHY THY CAN'T STAY LITTLE LONGER? AND WITH MOST FAMILIES HAVING TO HAVE BOTH PARENTS WORKING, A LARGE MAJORITY OF INFANTS AND TODDLERS ARE RAISED IN DAY CARE PROGRAMS...POOR KIDS,THEY MISS OUT ON SO MUCH A LOT OF THE TIME......ALL WE CAN DO IS LOVE THEM AND SOUNDS LIKE YOU TRUELY DO!
Posted: April 21, 2009 3:16PM EDT
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